But the Lord said to Samuel, "Do not look on his appearance or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him. For the Lord sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart.”
~1 Samuel 16:7
This is the beauty we were created to experience and radiate!
How can we specifically cultivate this
true beauty, by the grace of God at work in us?
It is a life of this – day by day,
moment by moment – looking to and loving Him, learning from His Word and
valuing what He values, letting Him work in you and fill you, and allowing Him
to flow through you to touch others for His glory!
Red-haired
Anne of Green Gables put into words what many of us have wondered.
Shortly after her arrival at Green Gables, Anne confided to Marilla her dream
regarding friendship - she wondered if
she would ever find “a bosom friend... a really kindred spirit to whom I can
confide my inmost soul”. If you know the story, you know that Anne did find
that friend in a girl named Diana. Does Anne’s desire ring true for you as
well? It does for me! We were created to be in relationships - first
with God, and then with one another.
When
Jesus died on the cross, He purchased our salvation from the penalty of sin and
provided the way for a relationship with the holy God of the universe. “All this is from God, who through Christ
reconciled us to Himself...” (2 Corinthians 5:18). God created us for relationship with Him! For those who
trust Him as Savior, we have THE GREATEST FRIEND that can ever be found. Before
an earthly “bosom friend” or “kindred spirit” will ever satisfy, we must
recognize and embrace the cup-overflowing fullness that is found in Christ
alone.
Have you ever felt like you were on a
roller coaster when human friendships ebbed and flowed, or even brought
misunderstanding or hurt? With God our Father, there is no shadow of change
(James 1:17)! He is a rock-solid Anchor
that will not move, and a Friend that will not fail or forsake us. Ever.
The Word of God is full of the blessings that we find in relationship with our
heavenly Father, whom we can also call “friend”. He is worth knowing as our
dearest friend!
Where can such friends be found? For starters, you may have some wonderful friend prospects right within
your own family. Don’t overlook your siblings! Friends may come and go, but
you will be related to your family as long as this life lasts. Then, pray for God to reveal “kindred
spirits” to you from other places as well - this may be at church, in your
neighborhood, at a class, or somewhere entirely unexpected! God will provide just who you need, at just
the right time. Recognize that there will be friends of the journey, and
friends of specific seasons - some friendships will be precious for certain
times in your life, and then time or distance will drift your paths apart.
Other friends will be ones that will stick through all of life, even if time
and space separate you at times.
able to share each others joys and sorrows, grow to be more honest
and real with one another, and enjoy the gift of a sweet friendship for the
journey! You might know this friend - her name is Amy. :)
"...strengthened his hand in God." ~
1 Samuel 23:16
We are humans who need help, encouragement, accountability,
and correction. The Lord often chooses to work through people to provide this
grace.
When I
was 10 years old, I heard a speaker share the gospel. I was very convicted by
what he said, so later that evening I went in tears to speak with someone who
could explain the gospel to me because I did not think I was really saved. She
explained salvation to me and I put my trust in Christ as my Savior and Lord.
After that I had an intense desire to read and study God’s Word and get to know
Jesus better. The more I studied, the more I realized how amazing Jesus is and
that He is not just a God far away, but someone who can be a close friend, even
a best friend. He has always been so faithful to show me His mercy and grace
and love each day. Jesus has given me so much hope and joy that I never find
with anyone else. I have so much peace when I walk closely with Jesus and even in
the times when I have drifted away some, He has been faithful drawn my heart
back to Him.
One
example of a time I started to drift was last summer when I started to become
really good friends with someone from my church. We spent a lot of time
together and we would talk on the phone and text a lot too. It was a very godly
friendship. We would often read our Bibles and pray when we would get together,
and on the phone we would talk about church and tell each other what God had
been doing in our lives. I was so happy that God had blessed me with such a
godly friend.
As I
realized this was happening, I also started to realize a lot of my joy was
gone. I was not living in the peace that only God can give because problems
started to surface as a result of this friendship. I went from being very happy
to not very happy at all. I was had a lot of inner turmoil. It was at this
time, that God removed this friend from my life. It was a little difficult at
first, but I could see God’s grace through it in so many ways.
Jesus is calling you to Himself.
1. Know His love personally and love Him in return. He pursues and we respond. 
"...I
am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things
present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor
anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love
of God in Christ Jesus our Lord." (Romans 8:38-39)