Thursday, March 14, 2013

Releasing Session 2 ~ "The Heart of Friendship" ~ The"Beautiful to God" Online Conference!


Session 2 ~ "The Heart of Friendship" ~ Beautiful to God Conference from Loving the Lord Ministries on Vimeo.

Dear Friends,

We are so excited to release to you Session 2 of the "Beautiful to God" Online Conference ~ "The Heart of Friendship"!  We are so thrilled to have you joining us from all around the world!  We continue to be so excited about what the Lord is doing in us as we seek Him - and for what He has in store!

Friendship is an amazing gift from God!  God is a relational God and He created us in His Image for relationships.  God has a very special plan for friendship - for His glory, our joy, and the blessing of others.  We must realize that our friendships are so critical - They can either aid you in knowing Jesus and living the vibrant life in Christ that you were created for, or they can destroy you.  We must seek for Lord’s grace to embrace friendship for all that He intended.  We are going to look at this in this month's session!

Be sure not to miss these special things: You can download the companion worksheet and study guide on the
LTLM website under the "Online Conference" section!  Please be sure to visit the "Loving the Lord" Blog for continued encouragement throughout the month - we've loved your comments and being in touch with you that way!  You can also connect with us on the LTLM Facebook page and the event page for the online conference.  And lastly, be sure to enter the March Giveaway (information below)!

I am so eager to look to Him together!  “A friend loves at all times…”  (Proverbs 17:17)

Excited about all that Jesus has in store for us,
Amy Vest
for Loving the Lord Ministries, Inc.

~ March Memory Verse ~


"A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another."
~ John 13:34

Announcing the March Giveaway!

~ Announcing the March Giveaway! ~
The giveaway this month is: A Pure Heart T-shirt (Size Large)

There are 4 ways to enter:
1. Memorize our memory verse for the month and quote it to someone.
(March's is ~ John 13:34)
2. Watch the video and comment on our blog (
www.lovingthelord.org) beneath the video post, sharing one thing the Lord is teaching you about friendship.
3.
Spend 15 minutes of personal devotions with the Lord in Bible reading, prayer, etc.
4. Call a friend, encourage them in the Lord, and spend time praying together.
5. 
Share the Session 2 video on Facebook, your blog, or by email, encouraging your friends to join us.
You can do all of the above! (You can enter a total of 5 times.)
Email
events@lovingthelordministries.org and tell us your number of entries by March 26th to be entered for the giveaway drawing. (You can enter a total of 6 times each month with the above opportunities)! We will announce the winner on the blog on March 28th!

Wednesday, March 13, 2013


"He has shown you, O man, what is good; And what does the Lord require of you But to do justly, To love mercy, And to walk humbly with your God?"  ~ Micah 6:8

Tuesday, March 12, 2013

Abiding in Jesus ~ by Amy Vest


 

The Lord has been drawing my heart in a fresh way to abiding in Him and has been revealing the wonder of who He is and what He alone can do, as a result!

John 15 has been a treasured passage of mine for years. Lately, I have been studying the Gospel of John and read chapter 15 again.  This time a verse popped out at me and the Lord brought fresh insight as I studied,
I am the vine, you are the branches. He who abides in Me, and I in him, bears much fruit; for without Me you can do nothing. (John 15:5)

I used to simply think of bearing fruit in the context of ministry – if I abide in Jesus, He will bear fruit through my life and reach others for Him.  While this is true, there is more.  When I abide in Jesus, He bears fruit IN my life.  He transforms me and brings fruit in who I am, as only He can. 

All that we are called to in the Christian life, is not possible on our own – and was never meant to be.  It was meant to keep us close to and relying on Jesus.  For example, the fruit of the Spirit ~ love, joy, peace, patience, etc. ~ will come as we abide in Jesus and allow Him to work in us and fill us with His life.  No amount of striving on our own strength can do this. 
"...without Me you can do nothing..."  Only by abiding in Jesus and His life in and through us, we are enabled to live the life He is calling us to live.

In a fresh way, I heard the Lord calling me, “Abide in Me and I will bear this fruit in your life.”  He is calling us to that deep relationship with Him.  A relationship of abiding – dwelling in, relying on, finding all in, drawing nourishment for our souls from, delighting in – JESUS, and allowing Him to fill us with His life and live His life through us.  The fruit in all of our life will flow out from this.

Friends, may we remember in a fresh way that all that we need is in Jesus.  Let’s look to Him for all that our heart needs, rely on Him for our strength, and allow Him to work in and through us, for His glory!  There is such joy in being a branch looking to the vine for all it needs, because our Vine is so all-fulfilling – JESUS!

Together, let’s seek to abide in our amazing Jesus and let Him bear the fruit that He desires in and through our lives!



Thursday, March 7, 2013

The Gift of Friendship ~ by Amy Vest



Do you love having friends?  You are normal!  I love having friends, too.

Ever since I can remember I have loved having friends.  As a girl, I would love playing with my friends and enjoying time together.  This area of my life took an amazing turn when I was around 11 or 12.  The path that the Lord was leading our family on was going in a different direction than most of the girls I knew.  At that time, I longed to have even one friend that I could relate to, be close with, and enjoy sharing life together.  It was through that time of loneliness, that Jesus drew my heart to see that He was the best friend I could ever have, and the one who alone could satisfy the deepest longings of my heart that nothing else had met.  My life was transformed.  As I walked with Him, He worked in my heart to embrace my family as my closest friends and I tasted the sweetness of this gift.  After a while, He brought an abundance of friends who shared a similar love for Him and passion to live for Him.  Looking back, I would not trade this journey for the world.  I am so grateful that the Lord did what I needed to see that HE was what I was longing for, then drew us close as a family, and then brought other precious friends.  Since then, He continues to allow times of looking at my life to see if He is first – and I am so grateful that He does!  His plan in friendship is perfect!!!!

God has an incredible plan in friendship!  God is a relational God, He created relationships, and He has a special purpose in friendship that is meant to bless us and glorify Him.  God’s purpose for friendship is to help us in our relationship with Him – the most important relationship of our life – and in living the life that He has called us to live!

Someone once said, “The two things that will most impact who you are 5 years from now are the friends you keep and the books you read.”  Friendships are so critical.  They can either aid you in living the vibrant life in Christ that you were created for or they can destroy you.  It all depends on how you approach them, what kinds of friends you choose, and what God is able or unable to do as a result – in your walk with Him, His work in you, and His work through you.  It is so important to see that there is so much potential – for blessing or harm - in this!  This is an area that we cannot take lightly! 

I am so excited to cover this topic together!  As we do, let’s receive the Lord’s grace to embrace friendship for all that He intended as we look at some aspects of friendship together!

~ Jesus as Your Best Friend

You were created to have Jesus as your Savior, Lord, and the most important relationship in your life!  As you grow in knowing Him, you will find that He is the best friend that anyone could ever have!  He is perfect.  In Him you find all of the fulfillment, love, and security that you could ever need in a relationship.  Living in this reality transformed my life and will transform your life, too!  This is what we are called to and this will impact all other relationships in the right way.   
The amazing thing is, when you have found your fulfillment in Jesus, you are able to go into other relationships seeking to share the love of Jesus vs. being desperate to receive from them.  We see this played out in the 1st and 2nd Commandments, Jesus answered him, “The first of all the commandments is: ‘Hear, O Israel, the Lord our God, the Lord is one. And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength.’ This is the first commandment. And the second, like it, is this: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.'”  (Mark 12:29-31) When we first receive Jesus’ love and love Him in return, then He will fill us with His love to love people as He calls us to love them!

So, again we see that our relationship with Jesus is what is critical!  Other friendships are gifts from Him and tools to draw us closer to Him, but they become idols and sinful and can steal our joy when they take Jesus’ place as #1 in our heart and life.  When we are embracing our relationship with Him as we should, our other relationships will increasingly be able to be all that He intended!

~ Your Family as Your Closest Human Friends
Our family members are meant to be our first and most important earthly relationships and friendships!

God hand-picked the members of your family to be key relationships and powerful tools to know Him, be shaped into His Image, and to serve Him together! 

In Acts 1:8, Jesus said,  But you shall receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you; and you shall be witnesses to Me in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the end of the earth.”  Jerusalem was where they were, then Judea was the next closest area, then Samaria, and so on.  This is what it should be like with our lives – being faithful first in the relationships that the Lord has put right in front of us, and then being open to the other relationships He brings!  The Lord has given you a first-hand, life-on-life, 24/7 opportunity – to cultivate these relationships, be a witness in daily life, and live for Jesus together.

Your family members should be your top human relationships and mission field.  Your parents are powerful relationships that you can learn from, love, and support.  Your siblings are priceless relationships to invest in, care for, and encourage.  (If you don’t have a dad or mom, the Lord will fill that spot – Psalm 68:5.)

It is so important that we start here!  Don’t miss God’s amazing plan in family.  Remember, in these important relationships, it is important that you do your part and trust God for the rest!

~ Choosing Your Friends Wisely
Friendships have the powerful potential to push us closer to Jesus or draw us from Him.

In Scripture, we have a powerful example of true friendship in David and Jonathan - “And Jonathan, Saul's son, rose and went to David at Horesh, and strengthened his hand in God.”  (1 Samuel 23:16)  True friends will do exactly that – strengthen us in our relationship with the Lord because we love God and love each other – and know that we will only be truly happiest as we are walking with Jesus!

I am deeply grateful for the relationships the Lord has placed in my life and used through the years to encourage, challenge, and help me in my walk with Him and this journey with Him!

As I write this article, I took a break to meet one of my best friends for tea.  We were able to share what the Lord has been doing in our lives, teaching us, what we can hold one another accountable for, and find out how to pray for one another.  I came away so encouraged, challenged, and refreshed in my walk with the Lord!

Choosing your friendships wisely is so crucial!!!  Your friendships will build you up or tear you down in Jesus and the amazing life He has called you to live.  Don’t treat this casually.  Ask the Lord for godly friendships and work to pursue them.  When you realize a friendship is damaging your walk with Christ, it is time to let that friendship go.  It is not worth the trade off.  “Do not be deceived: “Bad company corrupts good morals.”  (1 Corinthians 15:33)  Seek the Lord for wisdom and pursue the gift of true friendships that will bless you and glorify Him.

As you choose your friends and cultivate friendships, remember that there are levels of friendship and that it is important that you don’t just have lots of surface friends, but ones that you can become close with and really share the journey in a real way! 

~ Being a True Friend
Jesus left us the perfect example of what kind of friend to be.  All that we should be, we see in Jesus.  Can you think of some qualities in Jesus that we should have in our lives as friends?  He is: loving, caring, forgiving, patient, serving, etc. and so much more, right?

Just this morning, I was reading in John 13 and verse 34 was a beautiful picture of what we are called to, “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another; as I have loved you, that you also love one another.”  At the heart of friendship, is the heart and selfless love of Jesus, “Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one’s life for his friends.”  (John 15:13)  It is being willing to pour your life out for those you love.  This is only possible when Jesus is living in and through you – you are experiencing His love and can share it with others!

This looks like a hundred different things in daily life: praying for each other, being there for them, an encouraging letter, text, or email, a listening ear, helping them when they are in need, speaking the Truth in love, laughing or crying with them… and so much more!   
Last night I received a text from a friend that the Lord used to speak Truth into my heart and encourage me in the life He is calling me to live!

Remember, too, human friendships are made up of two sinners.  We must be ready to show Jesus’ heart to one another – to forgive, as Jesus forgave us, love, as Jesus loved us, etc. and continue to seek Him together!  “A friend loves at all times…” (Proverbs 17:17)  

~ Evaluating Your Friendships
We need to look at our friendships and see if they are fulfilling the purpose God has for them - for our good and His glory!  “As iron sharpens iron, So a man sharpens the countenance of his friend.”  (Proverbs 27:17)  Our friendships are sharpening us – shaping us – either towards Jesus or away from Him! 




Let’s ask ourselves:
~ Is Jesus my best friend?
~ Am I being faithful in my family relationships?
~ Are my friendships bringing me closer to Jesus or drawing me away from Him and living the life He has called me to live?
~ Am I pointing my friends towards Christ or distracting them from Him and the life He created us to live?

So, we see the treasure that the Lord has given us in friendship for His glory!  As you look to the Lord, love Him as your best Friend, cultivate relationships with your family, seek the Lord’s help to choose friends wisely, and allow Him to make you into a friend that reflects His heart, He will do beautiful things in you and through you.

May the Lord bless you as you embrace the precious gift of friendship to His glory!

“Oh, magnify the Lord with me, and let us exalt his name together!”  Psalm 34:3

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We will be covering and expounding so much more on this topic in the video session, testimonies, and more in the month to come!  Please feel free to leave your comments ~ We love hearing from you and responding!

Saturday, March 2, 2013

A Personal Relationship with the Lord ~ by A Brother In Christ



What does a personal relationship with the Lord look like? As we turn through the pages of Scripture we find many examples of men and woman who had strong relationships with the Lord. So what is it what sets these men and woman apart? What drove their passion and zeal for the Lord?
 


Let’s take a step back and examine a few key points from the lives of several men that are applicable to all who know Him.
But first let’s test our knowledge of the Word of God. Who in the Old Testament could you say was the greatest revivalist? This person is not someone you would normally think of in this way. This person is in the line of Christ and had a glaring sin at one point in their life. Think about it for a moment and we will come back to this point later.
So what does a strong personal relationship with the Lord look like? May I submit to you the fruit in our life from a strong relationship with the Lord is the result of our walk with God! When we are walking with God, spiritual fruit is a sure sign that our relationship with Him is strong and passionate. In the pages of Scripture we find seven men who Scripture says, “walked with God”. Let’s take a look at each of their lives and how they developed a strong relationship with the Lord.

How many names of men can you think of that Scripture says walked with God?


Enoch
~ The first example we come to in Scripture is Enoch. In Genesis 5:21-24 we find one of the only two accounts of his life. Enoch was one of two men who God took to heaven without seeing death. That by its self is a huge testimony of his passionate pursuit and special relationship with the Lord. Enoch is the only person in Scripture where God says, “He walked with God” more than once. In Hebrews 11:5 God says, ”By faith Enoch was taken up so that he would not see death; and he was not found because God took him up; for he obtained the witness that before his being taken up he was pleasing to God.” I am challenged to look at my own life and evaluate my thoughts, attitudes, words, and actions to see if they are pleasing to the Lord. Even amongst all this we find that Enoch was just like you and me, he was not perfect. In verse 22 we see that, “…Enoch walked with God three hundred years…”  Though we sin, if we are willing to confess that and repent God can still use us for His glory just as He did with Enoch. Enoch left a Godly reputation for the generations coming after him. What kind of a legacy are you leaving for those around you?
 
Noah ~ Three generations later we see the direct result of Enoch’s Godly legacy in the life of Noah. In Genesis 6:9 we find the following account, “These are the records of the generations of Noah. Noah was a righteous man, blameless in his time; Noah walked with God.” In Hebrews 11:7, we see that Noah followed God’s will for his life. "By faith Noah, being warned by God about things not yet seen, in reverence prepared an ark for the salvation of his household, by which he condemned the world, and became an heir of the righteousness which is according to faith.” But wait you say, how could Noah have walked with the Lord with all the evil around him? God has called us to be a salt and light in the world. Matthew 5:13-16 “You are the salt of the earth…You are the light of the world” If Noah was salt and light shouldn’t others have come to know the Lord as a result of his’ testimony? Sometimes the mission field God calls us to will be hard. Sometimes the life He ordains will be lonely and seemingly void of fruit. I Corinthians 3:6I planted, Apollos watered, but God was causing the growth.” We plant and water, but God brings the harvest through His sovereign plan. Sometimes God will use situations in our lives where we look and say, “God, am I the only one serving you? Am I the only one seeking you?” God can even use hard hearts for His glory. Think of Noah’s friends, Pharaoh, Moses etc., Ezekiel 3:19  “Yet if you have warned the wicked and he does not turn from his wickedness or from his wicked way, he shall die in his iniquity; but you have delivered yourself.” and Ezekiel 14:12-14. “Then the word of the Lord came to me saying  ’Son of man, if a country sins against Me by committing unfaithfulness, and I stretch out My hand against it, destroy its supply of bread, send famine against it and cut off from it both man and beast, even though these three men, Noah, Daniel and Job were in its midst, by their own righteousness they could only deliver themselves,’ declares the Lord God.” As someone who walks with God we should be aHerald of Righteousness” as was Noah. 2 Peter 2:5,”But [God] preserved Noah, a preacher of righteousness, with seven others, when He brought a flood upon the world of the ungodly…”


Abraham and Isaac ~
As we continue through Genesis we find the next two men who walked with God, Abraham and Isaac. The fathers of a nation, God’s people, the nation of Israel. Having a strong relationship with the Lord means we,

GO” when God calls us to go.

Matthew 28:19 “Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit…” Abraham stepped out in faith and followed the Lord’s direction for his life and God was able to use him for His glory. God has called each of us to “GO”. Acts 1:8But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you; and you shall be My witnesses both in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and even to the remotest part of the earth.” What are you doing to “GO”? You do not have to GO to Africa or South America to fulfill God’s command. We are FIRST called to go in our own Jerusalem, in our own town, in our own families.
David ~ All throughout the Psalms and many other books we see the life of David. Psalms 116:9 I shall walk before the Lord in the land of the living.” As a man or woman who walks with God,

We must be genuinely saved!

Being genuinely saved comes as we recognize our sin and need for a Savior, repent of our sin and trust Christ alone to save us, and surrender our life to follow Him as Lord.  This brings us into a right relationship with God, so that we can walk with Him. (Romans 3:23, 6:23, 5:8; John 3:16, 14:6; I Corinthians 15:3-4)
David was a man after God’s own heart who trusted God. As we read through the Psalms we see that David,
Had a heart of compassion and humility toward the Lord

This is evidenced by his many tears for the Lord throughout the Psalms. Romans 12:15 shows us a model of a heart that is compassionate for the Lord. “
Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep.”

Hezekiah ~
As we continue our journey with the seven men who walked with God we come to Hezekiah. II Kings 20:3 “Remember now, O Lord, I beseech You, how I have walked before You in truth and with a whole heart and have done what is good in Your sight… Hezekiah,

Walked in the truth of God’s Word.

He spent time studying God’s Word. A strong relationship with the Lord MUST be founded upon a love for God’s Word. We must spend time seeking God through studying His Word. We also see that, “
I have walked before You…with a whole heart…”

He walked with God with a whole and committed heart.

Because of His passion for Jesus we see the fruit of his life. 1 Chronicles 12:33 “Of Zebulun, there were 50,000 who went out in the army, who could draw up in battle formation with all kinds of weapons of war and helped David with an undivided heart.” With an undivided heart the men of Zebulun followed David. With that same undivided heart we are to follow after God.

He did what was good.
Galatians 6:10So then, while we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, and especially to those who are of the household of the faith.” What are you known by? What is the fruit of your life? Matthew 7:20 So then, you will know them by their fruits.”

Levi ~ This brings us to the final person scripture says walked with God. Let’s turn to Malachi 2:4-6Then you will know that I have sent this commandment to you, that My covenant may continue with Levi,” says the Lord of hosts. “My covenant with him was one of life and peace, and I gave them to him as an object of reverence; so he revered Me and stood in awe of My name. True instruction was in his mouth and unrighteousness was not found on his lips; he walked with Me in peace and uprightness, and he turned many back from iniquity.” Levi, the father of a nation of priest had an amazing relationship with the Lord. A strong relationship with the Lord requires that we,

Revere and fear the Lord

Malachi 2:5 “he revered Me… Exodus 20:20 Moses said to the people, “Do not be afraid; for God has come in order to test you, and in order that the fear of Him may remain with you, so that you may not sin.” Levi had a lightning bolt fear of the Lord that caused him to honor Jesus name. Do I have a proper and healthy fear of the Lord? A righteous fear of the Lord causes us to:

Stand in awe of God’s name

Verse 5so he…stood in awe of My name.” The name of the Lord is HOLY, He is our CREATOR. From the beginning of time God has loved us with His Holy love. Between Genesis 1:1 and 2:7 the name of God ELOHIM is used 39 times. Do we stand in AWE of our creator ELOHIM?


A strong relationship with the Lord causes,

True instruction to be found on our lips

VERSE 6True instruction was in his mouth and unrighteousness was not found on his lips…” Let’s examine the Word and allow Scripture to speak for its self in regards to our language. Psalms 19:14 Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in Your sight, O Lord, my rock and my Redeemer.” Matthew 12:34 “…For the mouth speaks out of that which fills the heart.”  Ephesians 4:29Let no unwholesome word proceed from your mouth, but only such a word as is good for edification according to the need of the moment, so that it will give grace to those who hear.”
So this brings us back to our question posed earlier. In light of verse 6, “of whom could it be said they were one of the greatest Old Testament revivalist?” May I submit to you that it could be LEVI! “…he turned many back from iniquity.” How do you live your life? Do you live your life in such a way that it is a testimony to those around you? Do they clearly see Christ lived out in your life? Do you boldly proclaim Christ to those around you? Are you known as someone who turns many away from iniquity? It is my prayer that we will be bold for the Lord and tell those around us about Christ. May I encourage you to examine your own life and consider the last time you shared Christ with someone? God has given us a commission to Go and proclaim His gospel. Will you be faithful to answer His call?   This is a great measuring stick with which to compare our lives to and evaluate our relationship with the Lord.

When we walk with God we are pleasing to God. When we walk with God it is ONLY because we have a strong personal relationship with God. That strong relationship with Jesus comes only from spending time in His word and applying it to our lives as these men who walked with God have done. We must purpose in our hearts to, “Seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”  Matthew 6:33 As David said in I Chronicles 22:19 Now set your heart and your soul to seek the Lord your God…” We must set our hearts to seek Jesus all our days. As you build your relationship with Jesus and seek Him I would encourage you to journal the exciting journey and share it with those around you. May you each be an encouragement to many!

Thoughts for evaluation:
~        At the baptism of Jesus Christ what did God tell the world? “That He (Jesus) pleased God!” Is my life pleasing to God? Are my thoughts, attitudes, words, and actions pleasing to Him?
~        II Corinthians 5:9 says that it should be our ambition and goal to please God. Therefore we also have as our ambition, whether at home or absent, to be pleasing to Him.” What are your goals in life? Is pleasing God and having a strong personal relationship with Him at the top of that list? In today’s culture even as Christians we are told we are to please God and ________. Matthew 6:24 "No one can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and wealth. God is to be our all. He is to be the ONLY person we strive to please.
~        What distractions and encumbrances must I remove from my life to make my relationship with the Lord strong and vibrant?  Hebrews 12:1 & 2 Therefore, since we have so great a cloud of witnesses surrounding us, let us also lay aside every encumbrance and the sin which so easily entangles us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of faith, who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.”